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Hey Dosto, Mere How to talk to Anyone post me mene aapko vo 7 Tricks batayi thi jo logo ko acche se baat kerke ek likeable Person banne me bohat helpful hote hai. To usi tarah aaj bhi me aapko randomly us Book ke bache hue 85 tricks main se
6 aur tricks bataoga jo aapki Social Skills ko next level per leker jayega. So let's began⇒⇒
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6 aur tricks bataoga jo aapki Social Skills ko next level per leker jayega. So let's began⇒⇒
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No.1 Avoid Fidget
1960 America me Presidentship ke liye ek live debate hui thi Nixon aur Kennedy ke beech me debate dekhne ke baad logo ne Kennedy ko apna President chuna tha. Tab bohat se Political fundid ne Nixon ke harne ka ek bada reason yeh bataya, tha ke vo camera ke samne bohat jaida Fidget kerte hue baat ker rhe the. Vo baar baar apni eyes per hath lga rhe the, jiski wajah se yeh logo ko Subconsciously Uninfluential aur Untrustful bhi lga. Qki body language experts aur bohat se log ek insaan ki Body language dekh ker yeh andaza lga lete hai ke vo jhoot bol rha hai ya sach, aur yeh un logo ke samaj me ata hai baat kerte hue insaan ki body moments ko dekh ker.
Most of the time esa hota hai jab koi insaan jhoot bolne lagta hai, tab uski body language bhi suddenly change hoti hai aur vo alag alag small moment kerne lagta hai. Matlab fidget kerta hai, jaise ke samne wale se eyes hata ker wapas use dekhna, apni gerdan ya face per hath lagana, apni eyebrows ko touch kerna etc... Yeh saare small moments hints dete hai ke shayed samne wala jhoot bol rha hai. Ab yeh hints hamesha 100% sahi nhi hote lekin haa jaida ter time yeh gor kerne layek hote hi hai. Wese bhi hum sab ko bhi subconsciously us insaan per jaida barosa nhi hota aur vo insaan jaida pasand bhi nhi ata jo fidget kerte hue baat kerta hai. Because fidget kerna mostly negative singnal hi deta hai samne wale ko jaisa ke isse keyi logo ko lagta hai ke aap unki baato me interested nhi ho, ya aap thoda ajeeb ho untrustful ho etc... Ab aisa bhi nhi hai aap logo se baat kerte time ek dam robot ban jao jo zara bhi hile dhulhe na. Lakin Author kehti hai jab aap koi important baat ker rhe ho kisi se bhi, tab vo time fidget kerna avoid karo Qki nazre ider uder kerna apne face ke paas hath leke jana yeh sab wrong singnal dete hai samne wale ko isiliye Limit the Fidget.
No.2 ALWAYS come out Positive
Bohat baar dekha hai mene ke log kisi se pehli baar ya dusri baar milte hi unhai apni life ki tragities aur saari promlems batane lagte hai, unhai lagta hai ke yeh kerke shayed vo samne wale se emotional connection bana rhe hai, ya kuch accha hi ker rhe hai, jabke actual mai vo bohat galat ker rhe hote hai. Qki mostly aapki negative baate sun ke samne wale ko bhi negative aur kharab hi feel hoga, jiske baad vo subconsciously aapko negativity ke sath associate ker dega, or shayed fir aapse wapas baat kerna ka dil kare. Isliye starting mai kuch time tak kisi se mil ker sirf positive baate hi karni chahiye, jaise ke goals, passion, dreams, interest etc... Ki baate ya koi bhi fun baate jo samne wale ko accha feel karaye or arguments ya negative baate humesha dur rakni chahiye, yeh cheez aapko likeable or bohat attractive bana degi. Isse logo ka aap ek positive insaan lagoge, jo life ko enjoy kerta hai. Naake negative insaan jo apni problems mai hi pareshaan rehta hai.
Negative baate jaldi na kerna ka ek aur reason yeh bhi hai ke ager aap start mai hi buri baate bataoge to samne wala yeh bhi soch sakta hai ki aap abhi hi itni buri baat bata rhe ho to aap pta nhi aur agge kitni buri baat bataoge jo isse bhi jaida buri hogi, isliye kisi bhi relationship ko positively built kerne ke liye start mai aap hamesha positive baate hi karo.
No.3 MODERNDAY RENAISSANCE MAN
Mujhe books mai interest hai, iska matlab yeh nhi hai ke mai jisse bhi milu mujhe usse books ke baare mai hi baat karni chahiye aur dusri taraf, Qki mujhe hockey mai interest nhi hai, iska matlab yeh bhi nhi hai ke mujhe hockey ke baare mai kuch bhi nhi pata hona chahiye, ya ager mera dost mujhe hockey ke baare mai kuch information de rha hai, to vo mujhe nhi sunni chahiye.
Jaida ter normal insaan un chizzo per zara bhi diyaan nhi deta, jo uske interest ki nhi hoti. Lekin aapko ek socially samaj daar insaan banna hai, to thodi bohat knowledge her field ya her game ki hona zaroori hai.
Qki kiya pata kal aapko aise insaan se baat kerni pad jaye jisse hockey mai bohat interest ho, lekin aapko hockey ke baare mai aapko kuch pata hi nhi. Isliye aap usse acche se baat nhi ker pao, aur nhi aapko aapko vo deal mil paye jo aapko usse acche se baat kerne per mil sakti thi. Isliye aap hamesha her field ki thodi bohat knowledge rakho. Qki isse aapko her type ke logo se baat kerne mai asani hogi aur aap kisi ke bhi sath accha relationship bna sakoge.
No.4 Be a Word Detective
Author ki friend Nansi ek nurse thi, jo nursing home mai bujurg logo ka khayal rakti thi. Vo ek baar author se milne ayi apni ek problem leke. Problem yeh thi ke, nansi ko un elders ki care kerni thi, unse acche se baat kerke, lekin Qki age difference bohat jaida tha. Isliye vo un logo se ghool mil nhi pa rhi thi, specially ek aurat se jinka naam Mrs. Otis tha.
Otis ek kadus type ki aurat thi jo kisi se kabhi baat nhi kerti thi, Nansi author ko batati hai ke, kal unone us se baat Kerne ki kosish kari thi yeh bolke, 'mausam to accha hi nhi ho rha, barish ne ek pareshan kerke rak diya hai' hena Mrs otis. Tou us per un hone mujhe moo bna ker yeh kaha. 'Barish bohat acchi hoti hai plants ke liye' yeh sunke, author ne has ker nensi se puccha ke isper tumne kiya reply diya, nensi boli mai kiya bolti un hone meri baat hi kat kerdi vo obviously mujse baat nhi kerna chahati thi. Tab author ne suggest kiya tum ek kaam karo kal un se ja ker pucchna, kiya unhai plants pasand hai. Nensi ne pehle bohat mana kiya per vo maan gyi.
Jiske baad dusre din nensi nai author ko call kiya aur ek dam excitement mai author se puccha ke unhai kaise pata chala plants ke baare mai Mrs otis ko plants had se jaida pasand hai aur itna hi nhi, unki shaadi bhi ek gardener se hui hai. Ab vo mujse bohat jaida baat ker rhi hai. Itna ki mujhe samaj nhi a rha ke mai unhai kaise chup karu.
Aise hi word detective ban ke logo ke baare mai jaida pta chal sakta hai. Jaise ki Mrs. Otis ke sentence mai plant word sunke author ne guess kiya ke shayed unhai plants pasand hogge.
Word detective banna matlab logo ke sentence aur word per diyaan de ker ye pta kerna ke unke interest kiya hai. Jiske baad aap samne wale se easily baate agge bhi bada sakte ho.
No.5 It's Communication
Hum insaan bacchpan se hi bohat selfsentered hote hai jo her chizz ko apne se relate kerke sochte hai, matlab jab bhi koi chizz hoti hai duniya mai ya koi bhi information milti hai hame. Tab hum sabse pehle yeh sochte hai ke isse mera kiya faiyeda hoga ya isse mera kiya nuksan hoga. Abhi aap mai se bhi kuch log yehi soch rhe hoge ke is information se mera kiya faiyeda hoga. Faiyeda yeh hai, is fact ka use kerke hum apni social skills bohat acchi ker sakte hai. Example samjho ke aap apni kaliqe se pucchte ho. 'Kiya tum mere sath pass mai hi khule ek naye bohat hi acche Chinese restaurant mai chalna pasand karogi', to shayed yeh suun ke unka dimaag yeh sochne lage, Chinese? Pata nhi acche se matlab waha ka khana accha ya environment. Pata nhi mujhe accha lagega bhi nhi. Aur aise hi bohat se self related question ayege unke dimaag mai. in sab questions ki wajah se hassitation hogi, jisse aapko bhi accha nhi lagega lekin ager vaise question pucchne ki wajaye vo same chizz aise pucchoge . ' ke jhil tumhe pata hai pass mai ek bohat accha restaurant khula hai, tumhe vo sach mai bohat accha lagega chalogi mere sath' to is tarah questions ko unse jaida relate kerne se. Jaida chance ho jayege ke vo insaan aapko haa bolega. Qki aapne unke bohat se hassitation apne question se hi alag ker diye hogge, yeh bolke ke tumhe pasand ayega. Aise hi jab bhi aap chahte ho ke aapki baat ki value jaida bade. Log aapki baat ko jaida importance de aur aapko positive reply bhi de to aapko apni baat mai samne wale ko jaida involve kerna chahiye jaise ke , tum , tumhara ya unka naam, aisa word ka use kerke wajaye hamesha mai, mera, mujhe in words ka use kerke.
No.6 Avoid BLOOPERS
Jab bhi koi insaan galti kerta hai, ya kuch bhi galat ho jata hai usse tab jaida ter log uspe hasne lagte hai, comment pass kerte hai. Ya kuch log Jo polite hote hai vo in sabse behter option lete hai jo hai ignore kerne ka option. Example ek baar author kuch badi companies ki CFOs ke sath ek restaurant mai baith ker discussion ker rhe the. Tabhi waha ka jo waiter tha, unki table se thodi hi door saari dishes leker gir gaya. Jaise hi vo gira alag alag awaze ana start ho gyi her taraf se OH OH, ARE RE, CHEH CHC, SABHAL K, bohat si halki hasne ki bhi awazje bhi ane lagi. Usi time pe ek CFO ke lag ke pass baked patato aaker gir gaya tha Jo unko halke se laga bhi, per un hone ya hamare table ke kisi bhi CFOs ne is chizz per diyaan nhi diya, balki vo aise baat ker rhe the jaise kuch hua hi na ho.
Uske baad ek aur esa incident hua, jis per un logo ne fir se kuch bhi reaction nhi diya.
Author kehti hai jaida ter experts communicators jo hote hai vo yeh baat samajte hai ke, jab kisi se galti hoti hai, vo already us baat se negative feel ker rhe hote hai. Aur hamara kuch bhi bolna us time per usse aur negative hi feel karayega. Isliye best yeh hai ke hum us baat ko atleast us time pe ekdam ignore kerde, ager vo kerna possible ho to. Qki aap logo ki choti moti galtiyo ko nazer andaj karoge to yeh chizz samne wale ko accha feel karayegi, ke aap kitne acche insaan ho jo unki galti aise hi ignore ker rha hai. jiski.. wajah se vo aapki taraf attract bhi hogga. So next time ager aap kisi ke face per bada sa pimple dekho to usse pin point kerke batao mat ke kitna bbada pimple hai. Qki unko already pata hi hoga. Isliye avoid karo esi chizze. Yeh unhe aapke sath rehne mai haida comfortable feel karayega.
To yeh baate Maine 'How to talk to anyone 92 little tricks for big success in relationship' by Leil Lowndes Book se batayi hai.
Ager aapko baqi saari tricks bhi seekna hai to aap yeh Book Amazon.com se kharid sakte ho.
Aur aged aap meri post ko miss nhi ker chahate ho to aap hamre facebook aur instagram account ko follow karo.
Accounts ki link niche hai.
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Share karo ager aapko yeh tricks kaam ki lagi,
Comments kerke batao konsi trick sabse acchi lagi. Share karo taki dusre bhi aapse acche se baat kare.
Mai esi aur kaam ki baate aapke sath share kerta rahogga usually her 10 days. And finally
Thanks for reading this post.
No.2 ALWAYS come out Positive
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| How to talk to Anyone (Hindi) part 2- communication skills Seeken |
Bohat baar dekha hai mene ke log kisi se pehli baar ya dusri baar milte hi unhai apni life ki tragities aur saari promlems batane lagte hai, unhai lagta hai ke yeh kerke shayed vo samne wale se emotional connection bana rhe hai, ya kuch accha hi ker rhe hai, jabke actual mai vo bohat galat ker rhe hote hai. Qki mostly aapki negative baate sun ke samne wale ko bhi negative aur kharab hi feel hoga, jiske baad vo subconsciously aapko negativity ke sath associate ker dega, or shayed fir aapse wapas baat kerna ka dil kare. Isliye starting mai kuch time tak kisi se mil ker sirf positive baate hi karni chahiye, jaise ke goals, passion, dreams, interest etc... Ki baate ya koi bhi fun baate jo samne wale ko accha feel karaye or arguments ya negative baate humesha dur rakni chahiye, yeh cheez aapko likeable or bohat attractive bana degi. Isse logo ka aap ek positive insaan lagoge, jo life ko enjoy kerta hai. Naake negative insaan jo apni problems mai hi pareshaan rehta hai.
Negative baate jaldi na kerna ka ek aur reason yeh bhi hai ke ager aap start mai hi buri baate bataoge to samne wala yeh bhi soch sakta hai ki aap abhi hi itni buri baat bata rhe ho to aap pta nhi aur agge kitni buri baat bataoge jo isse bhi jaida buri hogi, isliye kisi bhi relationship ko positively built kerne ke liye start mai aap hamesha positive baate hi karo.
No.3 MODERNDAY RENAISSANCE MAN
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| How to talk to Anyone (Hindi) part 2- communication skills Seeken |
Mujhe books mai interest hai, iska matlab yeh nhi hai ke mai jisse bhi milu mujhe usse books ke baare mai hi baat karni chahiye aur dusri taraf, Qki mujhe hockey mai interest nhi hai, iska matlab yeh bhi nhi hai ke mujhe hockey ke baare mai kuch bhi nhi pata hona chahiye, ya ager mera dost mujhe hockey ke baare mai kuch information de rha hai, to vo mujhe nhi sunni chahiye.
Jaida ter normal insaan un chizzo per zara bhi diyaan nhi deta, jo uske interest ki nhi hoti. Lekin aapko ek socially samaj daar insaan banna hai, to thodi bohat knowledge her field ya her game ki hona zaroori hai.
Qki kiya pata kal aapko aise insaan se baat kerni pad jaye jisse hockey mai bohat interest ho, lekin aapko hockey ke baare mai aapko kuch pata hi nhi. Isliye aap usse acche se baat nhi ker pao, aur nhi aapko aapko vo deal mil paye jo aapko usse acche se baat kerne per mil sakti thi. Isliye aap hamesha her field ki thodi bohat knowledge rakho. Qki isse aapko her type ke logo se baat kerne mai asani hogi aur aap kisi ke bhi sath accha relationship bna sakoge.
No.4 Be a Word Detective
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| How to talk to Anyone (Hindi) part 2- communication skills Seeken |
Author ki friend Nansi ek nurse thi, jo nursing home mai bujurg logo ka khayal rakti thi. Vo ek baar author se milne ayi apni ek problem leke. Problem yeh thi ke, nansi ko un elders ki care kerni thi, unse acche se baat kerke, lekin Qki age difference bohat jaida tha. Isliye vo un logo se ghool mil nhi pa rhi thi, specially ek aurat se jinka naam Mrs. Otis tha.
Otis ek kadus type ki aurat thi jo kisi se kabhi baat nhi kerti thi, Nansi author ko batati hai ke, kal unone us se baat Kerne ki kosish kari thi yeh bolke, 'mausam to accha hi nhi ho rha, barish ne ek pareshan kerke rak diya hai' hena Mrs otis. Tou us per un hone mujhe moo bna ker yeh kaha. 'Barish bohat acchi hoti hai plants ke liye' yeh sunke, author ne has ker nensi se puccha ke isper tumne kiya reply diya, nensi boli mai kiya bolti un hone meri baat hi kat kerdi vo obviously mujse baat nhi kerna chahati thi. Tab author ne suggest kiya tum ek kaam karo kal un se ja ker pucchna, kiya unhai plants pasand hai. Nensi ne pehle bohat mana kiya per vo maan gyi.
Jiske baad dusre din nensi nai author ko call kiya aur ek dam excitement mai author se puccha ke unhai kaise pata chala plants ke baare mai Mrs otis ko plants had se jaida pasand hai aur itna hi nhi, unki shaadi bhi ek gardener se hui hai. Ab vo mujse bohat jaida baat ker rhi hai. Itna ki mujhe samaj nhi a rha ke mai unhai kaise chup karu.
Aise hi word detective ban ke logo ke baare mai jaida pta chal sakta hai. Jaise ki Mrs. Otis ke sentence mai plant word sunke author ne guess kiya ke shayed unhai plants pasand hogge.
Word detective banna matlab logo ke sentence aur word per diyaan de ker ye pta kerna ke unke interest kiya hai. Jiske baad aap samne wale se easily baate agge bhi bada sakte ho.
No.5 It's Communication
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| How to talk to Anyone (Hindi) part 2- communication skills Seeken |
Hum insaan bacchpan se hi bohat selfsentered hote hai jo her chizz ko apne se relate kerke sochte hai, matlab jab bhi koi chizz hoti hai duniya mai ya koi bhi information milti hai hame. Tab hum sabse pehle yeh sochte hai ke isse mera kiya faiyeda hoga ya isse mera kiya nuksan hoga. Abhi aap mai se bhi kuch log yehi soch rhe hoge ke is information se mera kiya faiyeda hoga. Faiyeda yeh hai, is fact ka use kerke hum apni social skills bohat acchi ker sakte hai. Example samjho ke aap apni kaliqe se pucchte ho. 'Kiya tum mere sath pass mai hi khule ek naye bohat hi acche Chinese restaurant mai chalna pasand karogi', to shayed yeh suun ke unka dimaag yeh sochne lage, Chinese? Pata nhi acche se matlab waha ka khana accha ya environment. Pata nhi mujhe accha lagega bhi nhi. Aur aise hi bohat se self related question ayege unke dimaag mai. in sab questions ki wajah se hassitation hogi, jisse aapko bhi accha nhi lagega lekin ager vaise question pucchne ki wajaye vo same chizz aise pucchoge . ' ke jhil tumhe pata hai pass mai ek bohat accha restaurant khula hai, tumhe vo sach mai bohat accha lagega chalogi mere sath' to is tarah questions ko unse jaida relate kerne se. Jaida chance ho jayege ke vo insaan aapko haa bolega. Qki aapne unke bohat se hassitation apne question se hi alag ker diye hogge, yeh bolke ke tumhe pasand ayega. Aise hi jab bhi aap chahte ho ke aapki baat ki value jaida bade. Log aapki baat ko jaida importance de aur aapko positive reply bhi de to aapko apni baat mai samne wale ko jaida involve kerna chahiye jaise ke , tum , tumhara ya unka naam, aisa word ka use kerke wajaye hamesha mai, mera, mujhe in words ka use kerke.
No.6 Avoid BLOOPERS
 |
| How to talk to Anyone (Hindi) part 2- communication skills Seeken |
Jab bhi koi insaan galti kerta hai, ya kuch bhi galat ho jata hai usse tab jaida ter log uspe hasne lagte hai, comment pass kerte hai. Ya kuch log Jo polite hote hai vo in sabse behter option lete hai jo hai ignore kerne ka option. Example ek baar author kuch badi companies ki CFOs ke sath ek restaurant mai baith ker discussion ker rhe the. Tabhi waha ka jo waiter tha, unki table se thodi hi door saari dishes leker gir gaya. Jaise hi vo gira alag alag awaze ana start ho gyi her taraf se OH OH, ARE RE, CHEH CHC, SABHAL K, bohat si halki hasne ki bhi awazje bhi ane lagi. Usi time pe ek CFO ke lag ke pass baked patato aaker gir gaya tha Jo unko halke se laga bhi, per un hone ya hamare table ke kisi bhi CFOs ne is chizz per diyaan nhi diya, balki vo aise baat ker rhe the jaise kuch hua hi na ho.
Uske baad ek aur esa incident hua, jis per un logo ne fir se kuch bhi reaction nhi diya.
Author kehti hai jaida ter experts communicators jo hote hai vo yeh baat samajte hai ke, jab kisi se galti hoti hai, vo already us baat se negative feel ker rhe hote hai. Aur hamara kuch bhi bolna us time per usse aur negative hi feel karayega. Isliye best yeh hai ke hum us baat ko atleast us time pe ekdam ignore kerde, ager vo kerna possible ho to. Qki aap logo ki choti moti galtiyo ko nazer andaj karoge to yeh chizz samne wale ko accha feel karayegi, ke aap kitne acche insaan ho jo unki galti aise hi ignore ker rha hai. jiski.. wajah se vo aapki taraf attract bhi hogga. So next time ager aap kisi ke face per bada sa pimple dekho to usse pin point kerke batao mat ke kitna bbada pimple hai. Qki unko already pata hi hoga. Isliye avoid karo esi chizze. Yeh unhe aapke sath rehne mai haida comfortable feel karayega.
To yeh baate Maine 'How to talk to anyone 92 little tricks for big success in relationship' by Leil Lowndes Book se batayi hai.
Ager aapko baqi saari tricks bhi seekna hai to aap yeh Book Amazon.com se kharid sakte ho.
Aur aged aap meri post ko miss nhi ker chahate ho to aap hamre facebook aur instagram account ko follow karo.
Accounts ki link niche hai.
http://facebook.com/PVRjokes
http://instagram.com/PVRjokes
Share karo ager aapko yeh tricks kaam ki lagi,
Comments kerke batao konsi trick sabse acchi lagi. Share karo taki dusre bhi aapse acche se baat kare.
Mai esi aur kaam ki baate aapke sath share kerta rahogga usually her 10 days. And finally
Thanks for reading this post.
